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Taylor Pyles

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Taylor Pyles

Taylor Pyles is a child abuse survivor and the founder of The Blue Ribbon Project. He has been a police officer with Annapolis Police Department for over a decade and is assigned as a Detective in the Criminal Investigations Section.  When not working, you'll find him spending time with his family and out enjoying the countryside on two wheels. 

From early childhood, Rosa finds herself in a constant struggle of survival where she is let down by every adult around her except her dear grandfather, Nonno. But Nonno, her only stability in life, has to leave for Italy and then her parents subsequently divorce. Her mother’s work means Rosa is left in the most dangerous hands possible; the hands of a sexual predator. 

While this book doesn't fall in-line with Child Abuse, it does tell a remarkable story about SURVIVAL after a trauma. This book also hits somewhat close to home as I both live and work in the city in which this happened. When I first joined Annapolis Police, I did not know Jennifer Wheately-Wolf. In 2010, I heard the rumblings of a "cold case". I then began looking into the case. I discovered that some of my co-workers had worked this case.

 

You see, back in 1988, Jennifer Wheatley-Wolf became the victim of one of the most serious crimes imaginable. For many years, the person responsible had walked free from prosecution....until a fingerprint hit came back in 2010 and the case moved full steam ahead. It wasn't until things were in motion that I had the opportunity to meet Jennifer and see the outcome of the case. It was Jennifer's book that helped me continue my growth as a survivor and not a victim. It is for this reason, I feel her book is important, even for survivors of child abuse. Jennifer has also been a huge supporter of this website and our mission in helping others.Please check out her book...you will not regret it!

 

As we matured into adulthood, the whole process of growing up and making a life of our own entailed a great deal of new responsibility. Let’s face it, nobody wants to deal with the chores of daily living, among the most dreaded and overlooked being management of one’s finances. We all love money, that’s what we all work so hard for, to earn money and save and spend it as we see fit. Unfortunately, earning money also entails keeping track of your expenditures in order to be fully aware of how much money you have to spend, and how much you’ve socked away for the future or a “rainy day.”

   Carrying yourself with Dignity and Respect is somewhat of an acquired skill and will take time. Take a moment and think about what your goals are and any mission you may be on. What I want to stress to you is this is not some lesson on prim and proper snobby rich folk technique...It's not about that. It's about the impression you make on people.

Child Maltreatment: Definitions
Any act or series of acts of commission or omission by a parent or other caregiver (e.g., clergy, coach, teacher) that results in harm, potential for harm, or threat of harm to a child.

Child maltreatment includes all types of abuse and neglect of a child under the age of 18 by a parent, caregiver, or another person in a custodial role (e.g., clergy, coach, teacher). There are four common Types ofabuse.

 Having had a personal opportunity to speak with Ms. Liles after all this time, she shared `Florida's Child' - Bradley McGee's life story with C. Bailey-Lloyd. In her heartfelt words, she explained how she still advocates child abuse prevention, and still follows the case of Sheryl Coe, Bradley's biological mother. Today, we revisit Bradley's brief time on earth.

Childhood Responses to Threat

When humans are young, their world often revolves around their parents. Parents are the source of safety and security, of love and understanding, of nurturance and support. A child experiencing abuse develops strategies, which become coping mechanisms which enable day-to-day functioning, but yet help the child detach from the emotional and physical pain of events, especially when abuse continues over a long period of time (Henderson, 2006).

The prevalence of child sexual abuse is difficult to determine because it is often not reported; experts agree that the incidence is far greater than what is reported to authorities. CSA is also not uniformly defined, so statistics may vary. Statistics below represent some of the research done on child sexual abuse.

The following discusses signs of possible physical abuse. While much of this information can be valuable to all first responders, some of it may be beyond the experience of first responders who do not have an extensive medical background.

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